July for me was a difficult month due to my comments about fawn carpets. Luckily over this “storm in a tea cup” I had my umbrella! It’s when you feel upset that genuine friends show their true worth. I send my grateful thanks for cards, phone calls, words of support and even flowers. I’ll never forget such kindness! Of course I didn’t mean to cause offence. It would be very boring if we all liked the same things. Several people said “We’ve got your back”. Do you know that expression? I’ve only heard it recently mostly in “Coronation Street” It has military origins, I suppose it means “I’m guarding you from attack”.
This brings me to my subject of bullying. As a teacher/deputy head, I would never tolerate it. As a child I was bullied by my uncles, all policemen. I think it caused my panic attacks and stress in certain situations.
Just two short stories. On my first day teaching at a junior school in Southmead a boy in my class was caned by the Head teacher. His “crime”? He had taken a piece of chalk outside and had drawn on the playground.. Can you imagine, caned on your first morning in the Junior School?! I was really furious. I couldn’t leave my class, but the moment the dinner bell rang, I was in the Head’s office telling him how wrong I thought he had been. Many of the teachers used canes too. Thank goodness all that has changed! I have always found that children work harder and behave better if they are fond of you, not frightened! My daughter was in the school’s Nursery Class, which was the reason that I had accepted the post in that school. The Nursery closed an hour before we did. The two children who had tried hardest that day would be allowed to bring her to our class-room and play with her. Another reward for good behaviour was a concert to finish the afternoon. “Britain's Got Talent “ at the age of 7.
I taught English in France and I noticed that one lad was being very badly bullied. I sent him to deliver a note to another member of staff. In his absence I told the class that in England, one child had committed suicide because of bullying. It was a shock tactic, but it worked. How do I know? The boy’s single parent moved a month later to the next village. She told me that she would pay for a taxi to bring him to the same school as he was so happy there.
The word for bullying in French is “l’intimidation”. Our word intimidate means to frighten, to discourage or silence unscrupulously….all a form of bullying!
I wish you a stress-free September. Don’t let anyone bully you!
Esmé
This brings me to my subject of bullying. As a teacher/deputy head, I would never tolerate it. As a child I was bullied by my uncles, all policemen. I think it caused my panic attacks and stress in certain situations.
Just two short stories. On my first day teaching at a junior school in Southmead a boy in my class was caned by the Head teacher. His “crime”? He had taken a piece of chalk outside and had drawn on the playground.. Can you imagine, caned on your first morning in the Junior School?! I was really furious. I couldn’t leave my class, but the moment the dinner bell rang, I was in the Head’s office telling him how wrong I thought he had been. Many of the teachers used canes too. Thank goodness all that has changed! I have always found that children work harder and behave better if they are fond of you, not frightened! My daughter was in the school’s Nursery Class, which was the reason that I had accepted the post in that school. The Nursery closed an hour before we did. The two children who had tried hardest that day would be allowed to bring her to our class-room and play with her. Another reward for good behaviour was a concert to finish the afternoon. “Britain's Got Talent “ at the age of 7.
I taught English in France and I noticed that one lad was being very badly bullied. I sent him to deliver a note to another member of staff. In his absence I told the class that in England, one child had committed suicide because of bullying. It was a shock tactic, but it worked. How do I know? The boy’s single parent moved a month later to the next village. She told me that she would pay for a taxi to bring him to the same school as he was so happy there.
The word for bullying in French is “l’intimidation”. Our word intimidate means to frighten, to discourage or silence unscrupulously….all a form of bullying!
I wish you a stress-free September. Don’t let anyone bully you!
Esmé
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